Why?

If you don't like me, don't call me to be nice or what ever reason you are calling me. Let it go.

Guess who I received a call from tonight...
South Beach

I haven't heard from him in MONTHS! He called tonight to say he was thinking about me and wanted to see what I was up to. He was in Mobile and thought about me because I am from Alabama.

Why did he call? I put him out of my mind, deleted his number and now he just weaseled his way back on the radar. If he isn't interested in seeing me or coming to Atlanta, I wish he would not call . Seriously. It is just irritating.

I invited South Beach to the ATL

I know I have catching up to do, but I have been taking it easy with little to report during the holidays. Doesn’t make for good blogging, but my liver is thanking me.

The whole South Beach situation continues to perplex me – he sends texts (personalized, not the mass text) to say Happy whatever holiday or sends a text to tell me he is thinking about me if he sees something on TV that reminds him of me like AU football and randomly calls every few weeks. If I send him a text, he always calls me instead of texting back that night or the next day. BUT he has never invited me down to see him. I am convinced that he has a girlfriend. I asked him the night we met and he said no, but 3 months have passed since then.

I want to know one way or the other what the deal is. In my typical style, I drunk texted him and invited him up her for a friend’s birthday party next weekend. Yep…drunk text “come to atl on Jan 9th”

Well…he called me last night, which may not be a bad thing, but I was already asleep so I didn’t answer. I know he isn’t going to come, so if he doesn’t and doesn’t have a really, really good excuse (I will let you know what it is), I am chalking this up to he is in a relationship. I am going to call him back tonight. Stay tuned.

I am working on dating New Year’s resolutions and should have them up by this weekend.

I don't understand South Beach

Please don't think I am crazy because I am obsessed with someone I met one time...

I didn't totally delete South Beach from my phone - apparently, when you are drunk, you miss a couple phone calls here and there. I am headed to NYC this week and since South Beach travels as much as I do, I texted him yesterday to see if there was an outside chance he would be in NYC this week. His company is headquartered there and he lived there for several years so I thought it was worth a shot.

This weekend he was on a guys golf outing and he called me yesterday, in the middle of his guy golf weekend, to respond to my text. I missed his call so I didn't talk to him yesterday, but I took it as a good sign that he called me while still on his trip - right???

I returned his call after waiting the appropriate amount of time (so he doesn't think I am sitting around waiting for his call). Left him a message. He called back tonight and we talked for 30 + minutes. He won't be in NYC this week :(

I am not complaining, but why does he call? He doesn't have a trip planned to Atlanta. He apparently used to travel here a lot, but his work schedule has changed due to a couple things and he doesn't come here as often. He isn't asking me out or inviting me down to SB so I don't get it. Again, no complaining - but I am not sure of his intentions. Thinking from a guys perspective, he wants to keep me engaged in case he has a trip here? I don't know. Again, more confusion in the dating world.