Verdict...I am not going to call or text New York and tell him I will be in town. I am deleting him from my phone right now so there is no chance I will transform into a stalker. I was leaning towards no, but a lovely reader said I would cross over to the "creepy" category and I saw the light.
Maybe I will meet another NYC cutie when I am there. This trip I have a single sidekick so hopefully we will have good luck.
Showing posts with label New York. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New York. Show all posts
Friday, December 11, 2009
Monday, December 7, 2009
Dilemma
I am going back to New York next week. I will be in town for one night. Should I let New York know I will be in town. After being a stalker, not a good idea but on the other hand, what do I have to lose?
I get the he's just not that into me rules and I haven't heard from him since the weekend I was in town, but...who knows.
Please vote using the comments section. As an FYI...you can respond anonymously.
I get the he's just not that into me rules and I haven't heard from him since the weekend I was in town, but...who knows.
Please vote using the comments section. As an FYI...you can respond anonymously.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
New York Date
Wow…NYC treated me right. This was my first trip by myself for leisure – I don’t know that you can actually call it a true trip since it was only for 1 night/day, BUT it was a good start. It is definitely more fun to have someone with you, but it was a “growing” experience for me.
I met New York for drinks at the Four Seasons. I was a little nervous because I was afraid I might not recognize him. Luckily, there was more than 1 bar so he met me in the lobby. He had a client dinner so we only had 2 hours, but I had a a great time (only after I left did I screw things up). On my way to NYC I was thinking – why I am interested in this guy. Am I just interested because it is a challenge and he is from out of town?. I met him for a couple hours a month ago. After spending some more time with him, I remember why. He is so much fun to talk to. He is younger than me YIKES…No cougar comments please…he is 27.
He is a total gentleman. Amazing conversation. He is very interesting, well spoken, close with his family, career oriented, smart and likes to have fun. Not only did he buy my drinks, he also paid for my cab fare – I found a Yankee with southern manners.
I was nervous and had too many drinks (3 gimlets in 2 hours) and had a nice buzz going when I left drinks New York. I went to dinner and had a few more drinks so I was in a drunken stupor by the time I finished dinner. That’s when psycho came out. I started texting New York basically begging him to meet me out. I sent no less than 8 text. Really…am I really that desperate. No, but apparently after a few drinks I act that way.
Anyway, I sent a final text to New York the next afternoon telling him that I was mortified about stalking him last night and that I was not a crazy person. He sent a text saying he thought it was funny and he had a great time. I guess it doesn’t really matter because when am I really going to see him again, but I don’t want some guy out there thinking I am a crazy stalker after meeting him 2x. So, I screwed up by being a text stalker but at least it makes for a funny story. Haven’t heard from him since the last text and probably never will.
I met New York for drinks at the Four Seasons. I was a little nervous because I was afraid I might not recognize him. Luckily, there was more than 1 bar so he met me in the lobby. He had a client dinner so we only had 2 hours, but I had a a great time (only after I left did I screw things up). On my way to NYC I was thinking – why I am interested in this guy. Am I just interested because it is a challenge and he is from out of town?. I met him for a couple hours a month ago. After spending some more time with him, I remember why. He is so much fun to talk to. He is younger than me YIKES…No cougar comments please…he is 27.
He is a total gentleman. Amazing conversation. He is very interesting, well spoken, close with his family, career oriented, smart and likes to have fun. Not only did he buy my drinks, he also paid for my cab fare – I found a Yankee with southern manners.
I was nervous and had too many drinks (3 gimlets in 2 hours) and had a nice buzz going when I left drinks New York. I went to dinner and had a few more drinks so I was in a drunken stupor by the time I finished dinner. That’s when psycho came out. I started texting New York basically begging him to meet me out. I sent no less than 8 text. Really…am I really that desperate. No, but apparently after a few drinks I act that way.
Anyway, I sent a final text to New York the next afternoon telling him that I was mortified about stalking him last night and that I was not a crazy person. He sent a text saying he thought it was funny and he had a great time. I guess it doesn’t really matter because when am I really going to see him again, but I don’t want some guy out there thinking I am a crazy stalker after meeting him 2x. So, I screwed up by being a text stalker but at least it makes for a funny story. Haven’t heard from him since the last text and probably never will.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
New York Update
Last week I found out I have a meeting in NYC on Thursday afternoon. Since it is on Thursday, I am going to stay Thursday night and spend an extra day in NYC!
I texted New York, the guy I stood up for a coffee date, to see if he was interested in drinks. He has a client dinner, but said he could meet me before the dinner. Hopefully karma won't come back to bite me - I can just see him canceling the date because I stood him up last time. Anyway, I am excited for the trip and hopefully a drink date will just be a plus :)
I texted New York, the guy I stood up for a coffee date, to see if he was interested in drinks. He has a client dinner, but said he could meet me before the dinner. Hopefully karma won't come back to bite me - I can just see him canceling the date because I stood him up last time. Anyway, I am excited for the trip and hopefully a drink date will just be a plus :)
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